Femdom can sometimes be like a soap opera with a sexier cast. The world of Twitter creates a perfect backdrop for insights into the friends ally’s and adversaries of your favourite or least favoured Mistresses. Recent scandal ensued and this is not intended to be a comment on the still fresh drama of twitters last few days .. after all it’s not my business but I would be a lair if I didn’t admit it, having been my inspiration to ponder the political landscape of female supremacy.

The amazing ladies who choose the path of gynarchy, well they are all stunning creative and human .. we are all human.

The best part of femdom for me is that you don’t need to conform to the cookie cutter version of sexy .. There are Dommes of every shape size ethnicity personally and demeanour. For me this has always made me feel comfortable In my own skin. Femdom is about so much more than looking good naked, this said I find it odd that there is so much perceived competition between the queens of confidence.

I have always known I am unusual .. I have been blessed with the ability to just be me ..That said please don’t think I am without my own self doubt, fluctuating weight and being over 40 has it challenges for sure, but I know that I command the room.

I guess the point of this little word vomit is to say hell girls the females of this world own it. Don’t worry about the girl who you think is doing better just do you. I’m not saying I don’t have my femdom family and others that just make my hair stand on end .. I dislike a few, some with good reason others just because I judge the online persona they send out. I am far from perfect I have had a few public rants when the industry sends me into melt down.

Femdom is full is the self appointed commentators and self appointed elite who feel the need to rank their peers .. they bleat about findom is not real domination, we are above escorts, I don’t do face sitting, I wont touch a cock, high protocol is superior.. well I have news .. guess what.. you are all sex workers and you are all woman .. support the sisters you know are talented .. some talent needs nurture and takes time to blossom, and yes the industry attracts many females who are not cut out for it but let’s face it not all of them fail .. be kind or be quiet or at least discreet.